SO.... here’s the bright, shiny and easy GROOVE...
It is NOT the bothersome and irritating muzac playing in the background, it’s the cool groove within your fantastical positive THINKING. You have to be committed to this GROOVE and it makes Separation and Divorce a whole lot EASIER to listen to.
So you can decide what is on your divorce play list…
THE OLD SKOOL PLAYLIST
You have the OPTION to play some real legalista, banging beats tunes. This legalistas are going to give you strobe lights, loud thumping tunes and you most probably will to have to return to that Club many times over. Could it be that you are guaranteed to come out of that Club after many hours with the biggest stress, anger induced and fearsome headache? Will it be the BIG one that makes you realise all other previous hangover thumping heads seemed like a spa treatment in comparison?
OK I am putting this out there. Mediation tunes, these are the smart FUTURE binaural beats or feel GOOD tunes, growing in popularity and really being SUPPORTED by the banging beat, Clubbing legalistas.
Instead of going to the Divorce Club and going stressfully mental… The big hearts that are YOU and your Ex can enter into the Mediation Chill Out zone, have a cup of whatever tea you wish for and know this isn’t going to give you a really big, mean headache. You can sit feeling SAFE and understand that this is not about the big divorce fight. It is about a FAMILY unit that has broken and you are here to work some of your good trusting heart and TLC into this process of “working through” the NEEDFUL in a supportive, positive and BALANCED environment.
IT IS ABOUT THE GOOD
Everyone and by EVERYONE, I mean YOU, your Ex and trained independent MEDIATORS, have seen the effects of mean divorces. There is nothing tummy warming, laughter giving or positive about negative, angry divorces.
With Mediation, all who are present are here with HOPE and respect for a positive outcome of divorce, with the love we have for our brave selves, our beautiful children, families and friends and this is the real true GOOD. This is about what we can do to minimise any further arguing, aren't we all really done with arguing? It is about sitting around a table talking - as hurting and fearful adults, who, somewhere along the way got caught up in something that has the capacity to grow with expediential ease into a whole big cloud of raging negativity and hate.
Our own MEDIATORS and we were assigned two, due to the financial and fearful chaos cloud surrounding our existence, hang on a moment - we had two - for the fantastic price of one! How already SUPPORTIVE was that? We hadn’t even had a cup of tea and it was already FINANCIALLY making sense. ... our own Mediators were smiley, professional working Mums, my X and I both felt at ease. We understood quite quickly that committing to this process was going to help us in ways that we never realised, trusted or understood exist in the divorce world. We walked out of our first session and gave each other a hug in such relief at the support we had just experienced in that one first session.
YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE WHAT IS GOING TO WORK FOR YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS LIVES. THE DECISION YOU MAKE ON HOW YOU PROCEED THROUGH THE DIVORCE PROCESS HAS TO WORK FOR YOU BOTH
KINDLY, RESPECTFULLY AND MINDFULLY
It is important to get independent legal advice on all aspects covered by this blog which is representative of my personal opinions only lovely folk.
With LOVE Xxxx